It Was A Slap In The Face
Well...
Tenang, Ma..ini bukan mau whining lagi kok ;) *ngedip2in Mama sambil berharap minggu depan dikirim US$ 1000*
Sekali lagi gue got slapped in the face by the fact that : Some people really are try their best to show that they don't like me.
Nyadar deh gue, altho' I always try to be nice with anyone, doesn't mean automatically people just fall in love with me.
Some of them just plain-simply mean people.Period.
Imagine try so hard to be a good friend and be nice to them/her/him/whatever all the time for years. Bought them goodies when you came back from Indonesia, called them every alternate day just to say "How Are You?", remember all their children's birthday and bought a present for the kid, introduce them/her/him/whatever to all your friends.
Well, all that are simply NOT GOOD ENOUGH.
Because, like I said, some people were born MEAN.
Whatever you do to make them love you will just annoy them to hell.
The problem is : Sometime these people really looked like angels :))
With their smiling face when they see us, with their fake politeness when they talk to us, it's no surprise if people think that you're exaggerating or maybe you're the jerk instead, not them/her/him/whatever.
Ahhh..after all this years I live in denial, and now slowly but sure I could see things more clearly.And I learnt something today :
Don't judge the books by their look. A smiling angel before your eyes, could turn out to be the SMILING B I T C H.
:))
PS : Thanks sobat (you know who you are) , buat telepon kita pagi2, siang2, atau malam2 yang selalu inspiring ;)
Note : I'm no angel myself. My husband knows that ;) Dontcha darling? :D
Tenang, Ma..ini bukan mau whining lagi kok ;) *ngedip2in Mama sambil berharap minggu depan dikirim US$ 1000*
Sekali lagi gue got slapped in the face by the fact that : Some people really are try their best to show that they don't like me.
Nyadar deh gue, altho' I always try to be nice with anyone, doesn't mean automatically people just fall in love with me.
Some of them just plain-simply mean people.Period.
Imagine try so hard to be a good friend and be nice to them/her/him/whatever all the time for years. Bought them goodies when you came back from Indonesia, called them every alternate day just to say "How Are You?", remember all their children's birthday and bought a present for the kid, introduce them/her/him/whatever to all your friends.
Well, all that are simply NOT GOOD ENOUGH.
Because, like I said, some people were born MEAN.
Whatever you do to make them love you will just annoy them to hell.
The problem is : Sometime these people really looked like angels :))
With their smiling face when they see us, with their fake politeness when they talk to us, it's no surprise if people think that you're exaggerating or maybe you're the jerk instead, not them/her/him/whatever.
Ahhh..after all this years I live in denial, and now slowly but sure I could see things more clearly.And I learnt something today :
Don't judge the books by their look. A smiling angel before your eyes, could turn out to be the SMILING B I T C H.
:))
PS : Thanks sobat (you know who you are) , buat telepon kita pagi2, siang2, atau malam2 yang selalu inspiring ;)
Note : I'm no angel myself. My husband knows that ;) Dontcha darling? :D
It still sink or swim for Mel at 4:14 PM
10 Comments:
jarang-jarang jadi yang pertama ngasih comment disini, dan kalo gue ngasihnya sambil pake senyum manis :), itu bukan karena gue minta traktiran tongseng lho yaaaa ... *sambil ngences beneran*, tapi itu lebih karena gue menghargai kebaekan hati elo yang selalu menyediakan tempat dan waktu buat kita bersua dan berjumpa tiap kali gue males masuk kerja alias m/c illegal :D
the moral of this posting is: you can't please everyone.
but one person that you can please very well. yourself.
so, start treating and pampering yourself well, darling ;)
sedih memang. tapi kenyataan memang gitu. elo sendiri yg bilang, bertemen itu kayak nikah juga. kalo cocok ya jalan trus, kalo gak cocok yaaa... sampe situ aja.
mungkin dia/mereka bisa cock ma orang lain, tapi bukan sama elo. seperti gue sadar bahwa gue juga nggak cocok bertemen sama si anu, anu, dan anu.
Nauval : I will ;)
Hany : Ah, hany kok ngomong jorok yaaa :)) :)) :))
MEL
y' know what, "treat other people the way u would like to be treated" is so yesterday. treat them the way they deserve to be treated. if u're facing a bitch, be a bitch.
that's my two cent for today. good luck. ;) :D
Nong,
I know well, who you are. My Li'l cute daughter who always want to please every body. But now time is changing, you can not sacrifice your days with the thought that " I always did the good things for them , why they didn't return it."
Kick them out !! If it is needed , be BITCH like your friend said ,
I try hard to do that now, as willing to please people is my habit too. Hi hi hi nurun euy..
Mom
Turut sedih Teh, pernah ngalamin juga. Kata kuncinya mungkin sabar aja Teh. Kadang2 kebaikan kita akan dibalas melalui org yg lain, tanpa disangka-sangka atau tanpa kita sadari, nggak harus dr org yg bersangkutan.
Misalnya, di angkot pulang dr Jkt kerja capek, hujan2, tau ada org naik angkot main injek kaki, dia sadar tapi nggak minta maaf. Kesel sih, tapi mau protes nggak enak, nggak lama kemudian ada org lain lagi nginjek si org tadi...wah!! Jadi dalam hati Astagfirullah seharusnya nggak perlu misuh2. Maaf contohnya agak tdk nyambung, hihi.
~Just my 50 rupiahs~
well, aku gak tahu ini nyambung atau gak...
but, we all your friend, are here, for you.
Salam,
Pras
ikutan sedih dengernya...tp...dimana2 itu memang biasa terjadi, santai aja teh...toh teteh dah berusaha semampu teteh buat ngasih yg terbaik yg teteh bisa...pasti itu..walau kadang buat sebagian org...itu belum cukup...hiks..gile ape ye..kite mo abis2an cuman buat nyenengin org..trus kitanya ndiri babak belur? huehehehe...kira2...nyambung gak yah komentnya ane ini? hihihi...eniwei...haluuu teh mel...senangnya bisa nimbrung lg disini...have a nice day ya teh...
please yourself in pleasing others cos friendship is like having sex:D: you gotta take turn to give each other the pleasure you both deserve.
don't wanna take less than that!
Can't agree with you more! But I guess we just can't make all people to like us. With those people, what I always do is to think out loud. Let them acting out, as long as we don't fall into their game.
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